end of life grounding, planning and care especially for queers and their families
Touchstones’ services.
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Holistic Support
I offer non-medical well rounded support at every point along our life and end of life journey. This varies with each client’s needs and can take the form of emotional, spiritual, and/or practical care and planning. I offer tenderness, dialogue, facilitation, resources and personal care for individuals and their circle of care.
My goal is to support you in making informed decisions, often within hostile systems, in ways that feel right for you.
As a death and grief caregiver, I specialize in supporting your quality of life, exploring and celebrating legacy, encouraging reflection, intimacy, heart healing and connection. All towards whatever a good death means for you or your family or circle of care.
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Practical and Personal
How I might support you and your circle of care*
Provide brave space to speak openly and frankly with you and your loved ones about dying
Talk about creating an advance care directive
Explore and celebrate the meaning of your life and legacy
Discuss and support end-of-life care planning
Develop a plan for how the space looks, feels and sounds
Incorporate traditions or create new rituals to mark special moments
Bring a focused and intuitive presence to the bedside
Assist with physical and practical care to ease the burden on caregivers
Provide respite for exhausted caregivers
Explain the signs and symptoms of the dying process
Process the emotions and experiences with you and your circle of care
Support the spiritual practices of all involved
Guide people through stages of grieving
* modified from the International End of Life Doula Association
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Tender Care
More soon
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Joy
queer and joyful in existence